I don't even know where to start with this one right now...I am trying to write this out the night of the event which I know is probably the best time to do this...for now I am going to limit myself to doing just doing what I can remember off of the top of my head without skipping to my notes...mainly because I am too tired to do anything like that at this moment...I was at the conference from 8:00am till 7:00pm. So yes it was 11 hours but it felt like about 4.
It was amazing and I haven't been this on fire about anything in a long time. It is nice to find passion like this. Granted my desires are running some what parallel to EWB but are not the same in one crucial fact. I want to also teach people about the Lord that I am impacting. The speakers are so knowledgeable in their areas it is beyond me. I love how this is providing real world advice to real world problems
We went to breakfast at 8am.
Opening ceremony started at 8:30
First speaker started at around 9
....This is what I had wrote down before basically passing out in my bed...I find it slightly amusing that I tried to go through the day with the times...then just stopped. Here is the review I wrote up later while in the plane...
The rumors were flying around the previous day that we were going to have snow. Some were saying 8 inches while others were saying as much as 14 inches. Of course it was 60 some odd degrees the day before I and I no more believe them then the man on the moon. Well sure enough it did get cold and it did snow.
When I woke up around 7:30 I looked out the window and found that it was snowing. When we walked out I could tell the snow had been coming down for a while but apparently the ground was still way too warm from the previous day’s heat for much accumulation to occur.
We walked to the Sheridan and came in to see the whole gathering area was filled with people and food. The breakfast had muffins , bagels, and a few other things.
We were greeted in the opening presentation by Catherine Leslie with the welcome ceremony. The Denver Mayor (John Hickenlooper) was then scheduled to speak but did not make it.
(8:45-9:45)
Next in line was the keynote speaker, Joseph Grenny. He was a motivational speaker of sorts…and his subject was Critical Conversations. Critical Conversations are the point in a relationship usually surrounded by conflict where the politically unsure thing needs to be said to a person in order to help the team as a whole because if not approached it becomes the forbidden topic and at that point it is too late.
(A copy of what I wrote in my notes:)
Moments of Disproportionate Influence
-They are emotional or politically sensitive points in a relationship.
93% of people work with an "untouchable" person. These people are those that are incompitent, dishonest, rude, etc. Their actions have been going on for so long that no one will approach them about the issue.
People kill the dialogue during these "Moments of Disproportionate Influence" unknowingly by these actions instead of taking care of the issue:
-Keep the peace
-Avoid Conflict
-Win
-Be Right
-Save Face
When in one of these "Moments" you should stop and examine your motives because of these things:
- Your motives always control you actions
- You are never a good enough of an actor to fool people
The solution to all of this is to ask these questions:
-What do I really want for Me
-What do I really want for Others
-What do I really want for My Relationship with them
People never get defensive about what your are saying. They get defensive because of why you are saying it. Therefore, show that you care about their problems and care about them to break past the communication barrier.
And last but not least (THE BROWNIES ARE BAD)
And last but not least (THE BROWNIES ARE BAD)
Audio
Part 1